Love has a relationship with courage as well as fear. Fear is what often
prevents us from serving God. Courage is working through fear (if you
want to live in fear and anxiety, then you don't need courage, because
you have already decided to live with it.)
Natural: This kind of fear is the kind that preserves life.
It keeps you alive [e.g., the fear of heights that keeps you away from
the edge of cliffs or when a lion (other than Aslan of course) walks
into the room and you make a decision to either fight or get the heck
out of there!]. This kind of fear is healthy and good!
Sinful: This is fear that is in excess or immoderate. An example
is when we give to someone or something the power that ONLY God should
have (the power to control our lives and our attitudes). This kind of
fear controls us and becomes like an idol that is the focus of our lives.
With it we want someone else's approval more than we want God's approval.
This allows that person or thing to shape how we live and replaces God
as the primary consideration. Scripture says that Perfect Love casts
out all fear. This type of fear is an example of perfect fear casting
out all love because it is inwardly focused.
Religious: This is the antidote to sinful fear. Religious fear
is a fear of God that drives out -- or puts in perspective -- lesser
fears. Religious fear means you don't have to walk in the way of people
and you don't have to fear what they fear because you fear the Lord
of hosts more than sinful fears. Religious fear puts sinful fear within
bounds.
Proverbs 1:7 - The fear of the Lord is the beginning of
knowledge...
Proverbs 9:10 - The fear of the Lord is the beginning of
wisdom...
Proverbs 23:17 - Do not let your heart envy sinners, but
always be zealous for the fear of the Lord.
Ecclesiastes 12:13 - ...Fear God and keep his commandments,
for this is the whole duty of man
What does it mean to fear God? It's not the kind of fear that a slave
has for a harsh task master. It is not the fear of being beaten by parents
but, instead, the fear of disappointing them or being separated from
them. You see, the more we love God the less we will fear the people
and things around us.
Matthew 25:21-25 says in the Parable of the Talents:
His master replied, "Well done, good and faithful servant!
You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge
of many things. Come and share your master's happiness!"
One man buried the talent he was given because he was afraid of his
master. This is an example of Sinful Fear. The man was not willing to
take a risk because he was scared. As a result, what he did have was
taken from him.
In Matthew 6:19-34 the scripture talks about worrying about where to
get food and clothing and says where your treasure is, so will be your
heart.
Greater
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Lesser
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Treasures in Heaven
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Treasures on earth where moth and rust destroy |
Worrying about life
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Food |
Worrying about your body
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What clothes you will wear |
Aren't you worth more than they?
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God takes care of the birds of the air |
Will he not much more clothe you?
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God clothes the grass of the fields |
Which of you by being anxious can add a cubit to his life span? We
are told to seek the Kingdom of God first and everything will fall into
place.
The greater problem in our lives is that we listen to ourselves
instead of talking to ourselves. By listening to ourselves, unchecked,
we move toward fear. Instead we should say to ourselves... "Self,
remember who God is. Remember He is in control, remember He provides
what we need." Keep your fear in check. The more perfect your
love is, the less your eyes are on yourself, but instead on others.
The most popular people are those who love others the most, who care
and are compassionate toward others. Put your eyes on Jesus and then
the needs of others. Don't focus on yourself. For example, if you are
getting ready to speak to a group of people, do you get scared? You
should think about:
- Do you have something worthwhile to say?
- Do you care more about sharing it with others who may benefit from
hearing it?
- Praying to help you love them enough to share with them, and
- Don't take yourself too seriously.
The more we have the power of the Holy Spirit, the more power we will
have to love. It is more than a rational thing. We can't change ourselves
by imagining things that will never happen. But if we focus on Jesus
and what He is doing, we will be changed by Him. Live by faith... don't
let your past rule your functioning in the future.
I Thess 5:8 tells us to put on the armor of Faith, Hope and Love. We
need faith (trust in Christ) Hope (what God will do in the future) and
we need to function in love.
The more we are tied into these, the more we can function in love.
The worst has already happened -- Christ was killed for us -- everything
else pales in comparison.